OCD is a condition in which intrusive thoughts become sticky and distressing, and people feel driven to use compulsions to relieve that anxiety. When it comes to treating these thought loops, reliable information can be surprisingly hard to find. In parts one and two, we went over myths about what OCD is and how it works. Understanding what OCD does is an important first step in treatment, so you’ve already taken a big step. Let’s break down some more myths, this time all about OCD treatment.

If you’ve spent time learning about OCD, you may have realized that the version of OCD portrayed on screen is rather incomplete or inaccurate. After learning the many forms OCD can actually take, the next question is often “why?” and “how?” In part one, we went over common myths about what OCD is. When it comes to the why and how of OCD, there is again no shortage of misinformation.

From sitcoms to reality TV to social media, the world has a lot to say about what obsessive-compulsive disorder is, how it works, and how it’s treated. Unfortunately, not all of it is accurate. And when it comes to OCD, recognizing it is half the battle. OCD is a disorder that occurs when distressing intrusive thoughts become sticky and difficult to dismiss, causing intense anxiety and a drive to reduce that anxiety with compulsions. This can present in a wide variety of ways, and two people’s OCD may look very different from one another. 

OCD knows no bounds when it comes to the topics that it circles, and a common topic across the board is attraction. This shows up in many OCD themes, and is especially true in themes involving relationships, sexuality, and identity. Those with OCD may face intrusive thoughts and doubt regarding whether their attraction to others is appropriate, if they’re really attracted to their partner, or if they can really trust that they know their sexual orientation, even with no true evidence to the contrary. 

Discovering who you are, what makes you feel most like yourself, how you identify, and who you’re attracted to is an exciting, and at times very nerve wracking period of growth and discovery. For many, this period involves uncertainty, vulnerability, and big emotions: all a normal part of figuring out who you are. And for some, OCD can hijack someone’s ability to feel a sense of certainty about themselves or engage with self-discovery.